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Grittleton House Lesbian Wedding

Photography by Joab Smith Photography

There's little in life more beautiful than a classic wedding at Grittleton House. What makes it even more beautiful, I hear you all ask? A classic, black-tie LGBTQIA+ interracial wedding with smoke bombschampagne pop photos, heartfelt speeches and a pregnancy announcement, with the breathtaking Grittleton House as its backdrop. That's what. Cherelle & Lara had a truly special day, the love and happiness palpable in each and every photo. Lara was also 7 months pregnant after a successful IVF, so everyone was celebrating the love of two incredible people - and a soon-to-be third.


Awe-inspiring lesbian black-tie wedding at Grittleton House

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The vibe, we would say, was sophisticated and romantic, yet still so original and edgy. All of our guests said it was us in decor, us in detail and us in the feeling. People told us they fell in love again at our wedding. We wanted our love and vibes to really be felt by everyone - and to get into the souls of our friends and family. That is exactly what happened! The styling was us to a T. Expensive yet uniquely Cherelle and Lara, down to the little details. We also had our flare, our fun and our energy from start to finish from music and photographers to our bridal party.

Cherelle & Lara

Exterior of Grittleton House South West England wedding venue
Aisle of Grittleton House wedding venue with high columns and ceilings, wooden chairs, warm cosy lighting and slim flower arch going around the door
Bridal party wearing classic black tuxedos at black-tie lesbian wedding at Grittleton House
Bride in sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil going down the stairs at Grittleton House with father of the bride
Father of the bride walking bride in sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil down the aisle of Grittleton House wedding venue
Bride in black-tie tuxedo with black bowtie, white rose boutonniere waiting at the end of the aisle at Grittleton House
Bride in black-tie tuxedo with white rose boutonniere after seeing bride walking down the aisle at Grittleton House
Bride in sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil kissing bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere
Bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere kissing bride in sleeveless lace v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil at black tie Grittleton House lesbian wedding
Bride in lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil holding baby bump listening to bride saying their vows in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere
Bride holding white rose bridal bouquet wearing sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil holding hands with bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere at the alter of Grittleton House
Bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere holding hands with bride in lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil at Grittleton House
Bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere reading their vows to bride in lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil holding her baby bump
Bride in lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil and bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere doing wedding exit through Grittleton House with white rose and foliage flower arch around the door
Bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere and bride in lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil holding white garden rose bridal bouquet doing confetti exit at black-tie lesbian wedding at Grittleton House
Bride in lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length embroidered lace 3d appliqué veil holding hands with bride in black-tie tuxedo at Grittleton House
Bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere holding hands with bride in lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil holding white garden rose bridal bouquet doing white petal confetti exit at wedding
Bride in snakeskin black tie suit hugging wedding guest in deep blue patterned suit
Bride in lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil holding hands with Bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere holding white garden rose bridal bouquet doing white petal confetti exit at wedding
Bride in low scoop back lace wedding dress and church length veil holding white garden rose bridal bouquet hugging wedding guest in classic black tuxedo

Talk to Coco 

And it's not just the beauty of the wedding that makes this particular couple so special. Cherelle is a professional mental health activist, by the name of Coco, especially within the LGBTQIA+ community. Doing vital work, and looking this good on their wedding day - talk about a winner. Coco is an activist who has touched the lives of millions around the world by sharing their own experiences. Advocating for inclusion can be challenging, and leading the way for others is even more demanding. However, Coco has taken up the fight for equality. Coco's uplifting social media posts have been featured on billboards across the UK, garnering thousands of followers. Their posts consist of positive affirmations such as "You are enough," "You are loved," and "You are worthy." Coco explained that their dedication to mental health emerged from a place of authenticity - they turned to Instagram to express their feelings and connect with others.

Grittleton House

Grittleton House is a privately owned country house and wedding venue. Boasting 35 acres of meticulously maintained gardens and grounds, this enchanting property offers a selection of rooms to accommodate weddings of all sizes, making it the ideal setting for your special day. Nestled within the picturesque village of Grittleton, in the heart of the Cotswolds, Grittleton House holds a prominent position alongside the charming St Mary's Church. Situated just a short distance from the vibrant cities of Bath and Bristol, with excellent transportation links to London, Grittleton House is easily accessible to guests from near and far. As you make your way along the private tree-lined drive, the grandeur of Grittleton House unfolds before you, revealing sweeping views of the magnificent house and its surrounding grounds. The architectural splendour of the house is truly captivating, adorned with gothic features and intricate detailing.

Bride sitting on a wicker chair at Grittleton House wedding venue in lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil with 3d appliqué embroidered flowers chatting with wedding guest
Bride lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil with 3d appliqué embroidered flowers sitting on a wicker chair at Grittleton House wedding venue holding white garden rose bouquet chatting with wedding guests
Bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere standing with bridesmaids in mismatched black bridesmaid dresses
Bride in lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil holding hands with bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere standing with bridal party in classic black tuxedos with white rose boutonnieres
Champagne pop wedding photoshoot with bridesmaids in satin black strappy bridesmaid dresses and classic black tuxedos, bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere and bride in lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil at Grittleton House
Bridesmaids in midi length black bridesmaid dresses posing with brides in lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil and black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere at Grittleton House
Bride in lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil and bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere holding her baby bump
Bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere and golden watch holding bride's baby bump, wearing lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil at golden hour couples photoshoot
Bride in lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil posing with bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere at golden hour at Grittleton House lesbian black-tie wedding
Bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie kissing bride in lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil on the grounds of Grittleton House wedding venue
Bride in lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil sitting on wicker chair during smoke bomb photoshoot at Grittleton House wedding venue
Bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie kissing bride on the cheek in lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish during wedding smoke bomb photoshoot
Wedding party in strappy satin midi length black bridesmaid dresses and classic black tuxedos with white rose boutonnieres doing smoke bomb wedding photos at Grittleton House wedding venue
Bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere running with wedding party in strappy satin midi length black bridesmaid dresses and classic black tuxedos with white rose boutonnieres doing smoke bomb wedding photos at Grittleton House wedding venue
Bride in lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil walking hand in hand with bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere walking through the grounds of Grittleton House wedding venue
Bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere holding hands with bride in lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish holding white garden rose bouquet outside Grittleton House wedding venue
Grittleton House wedding venue - couples wedding photoshoot
Bride in lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish and church length veil holding white rose bouquet walking hand in hand with bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere on the grounds of Grittleton House wedding venue

Black-tie lesbian wedding at Grittleton House

Our favourite moment of the day had to be when we announced we were having a son! And the photos outside in Grittleton House with our friends and family. Some smiling, some fun and goofy, some serious faces... We also used champagne sprays - just like us - tasty but silly. And the obvious moment - when we both got to pour our hearts and souls into each other during our vows, in front of all the people we love. Our first dance was brilliant - not typical and slow, either. We danced to Afro beats and enjoyed ourselves. Even being 7 months pregnant didn't stop my wife. Plus, I surprised her and everyone with fireworks at the end.

Cherelle & Lara

Classic wedding tablescape with white table cloth, tapered candles in gold candelabras, pillar candles, gold frame decorations, gold plates, gold cutlery and dried flower and white rose floral arrangements at Grittleton House
Grittleton House reception room with classic wedding tablescape including white table cloth, tapered candles in gold candelabras, pillar candles, gold frame decorations, gold plates, gold cutlery and dried flower and white rose floral arrangements
Metallic gold wedding table plan on wooden easel at Grittleton House wedding
Classic wedding tablescape with white table cloth, tapered candles in gold candelabras, gold frame decorations, gold plates, gold cutlery and dried flower and white rose floral arrangements at Grittleton House
Bride in glasses, black snakeskin print tuxedo with teal lining, black waistcoat, black bowtie and white rose boutonniere walking into the reception room of Grittleton House with bride in lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress with tulle finish
Artistic wedding cake - three tiered wedding cake with white feather like decorations, white cake ball on the top and white wedding drapes on large clear cake stand
Bridesmaids in strappy satin midi length black bridesmaid dresses doing wedding speeches at Grittleton House wedding venue
Bridal party wearing strappy satin midi length black bridesmaid dresses doing wedding speeches to the couple and guests at Grittleton House
Bride wearing lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress wiping tear from her eye sitting next to bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere at head table of Grittleton House
Bride in black snakeskin print tuxedo with black bowtie and white rose boutonniere laughing with bride in lace sleeveless v neck Enzoani wedding dress during wedding speeches at Grittleton House

Lara wore the most gorgeous sleeveless lace Enzoani wedding dress - made all the better with a baby bump!

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What made our day unique? After rounds of RIVF, my wife was finally pregnant with our son and she was 7 months pregnant on the big day. Covid stopped it from happening 2 years prior, and we're so, so glad it ended up this way. Because now our little family was there on our big day. We announced during the speeches that we were having a boy! Also, we were the 1st interracial Lesbian couple to ever get married at the venue. We wore what we wanted, not what was expected of us.

Cherelle & Lara


A truly delightful wedding from start to finish. If it brought a tear to your eye, don't be shy (hello, Dr Seuss). You're certainly not alone there. Grittleton House provided a wonderful backdrop to a wonderful wedding - and that's the power of a great wedding venue. That's why we rounded up 7 important things to consider when you're searching for your own wedding venue. Cherelle & Lara's big day came to around 40-50k - and if you want to start saving up for a similarly-priced bash, then our article on how to save for your wedding is a good place to start.


Photography: Joab Smith Photography |
Entertainment: DJ T |
Florist: Beaufort Blooms |
Cake Maker: Joanne Towers |
Hair Stylist: Trent Jackson |
Makeup Artist: Makeup By Charlotte |
Dress Maker: Enzoani |
Suit Designer: Nathan Palmer |
Bridal Boutique : Laura May
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