Aswarby Rectory wedding with two brides in boho lace wedding dresses

Aswarby Rectory Wedding With Seasonal Flowers

Photography by Steven Haddock Photography

Choosing to marry at Aswarby Rectory because of its stunning minimalist features, Isabelle & Jess had such a stunning autumnal October wedding. The two brides met on a night out in Derby and it was love at first sight. Shortly after meeting, Jess’ mum trained Isabelle in floristry and then they set up a wedding flower business, Violet & Vine. How cute! Isabelle & Jess' friend stepped up as celebrant for the day. It was her first wedding and she has since gone into business as a celebrant! Isabelle wore a pre-loved Willowby by Watters wedding dress and it’s beautiful! The couple found their wedding band through Recommended Supplier, Entertainment Nation! There were so many personal moments to this big day, let’s get into them…


Aswarby Rectory wedding with a stunning pre-loved Willowby by Watters wedding dress

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A number of our suppliers were family and friends - Isabelle runs a wedding floristry business with her mother-in-law, Julie. It was always planned that they would create the floral designs for our day. Chloe Green is a close friend to us both. She was looking into a career as a celebrant and wanted to 'try it out'. She was incredible and no one could believe it was her first go! Steve's photography style was exactly what we were after, candid-focused with an editorial edge. 

Isabelle & Jess

Two father of the brides in navy suits at their daughter's wedding
Celebrant in light pink suit at Aswarby Rectory wedding venue
Wedding reading performed at bespoke same sex wedding ceremony at Aswarby Rectory
White minimalist wedding welcome sign on metal frame
British-grown seasonal pink wedding flowers in bouquets for the brides
The two brides share their first kiss as a married couple by the celebrant and friend
Princess cut diamond engagement ring in halo setting
Bride in plunge Willowby by Watters wedding dress bought pre-loved
Brides in boho lace wedding dresses walking out of their ceremony to epic confetti moment
Brides in lace wedding dresses walking back down the aisle at Aswarby Rectory venue in the East Midlands
Pillar candles in white fireplace with pink flower decorations to match the theme
Bride walking in gorgeous ASOS wedding dress being held by a flower girl in a white dress
Dried wedding flower decoration at boho same sex wedding
Bride in floral embroidered wedding dress bought second hand
Bridal party walking down the stairs in navy blue bridesmaid dresses
Aswarby Rectory wedding venue in the East Midlands
Pink wedding bouquets made by one of the brides and her mother in law for the wedding
Wedding guests chuckle at the funny and personal wedding ceremony for LGBTQI+ couple
Bride in delicate lace wedding dress from ASOS

Aswarby Rectory 

Isabelle & Jess have always been very drawn to Aswarby Rectory because the aesthetic is completely them. Aswarby Rectory is the ultimate country house wedding venue - the decor and the style is exactly what the couple aspires to have in their own home. The couple kept this minimalist vibe with just the right amount of luxury. Their ceremony was magic! Conducted by a close friend who had spoken to friends and family to create a bespoke masterpiece, the ceremony was personal, funny, and emotional. In lieu of table numbers, old wedding photos from Isabelle and Jess’ family were framed. Isabelle & Jess’ mums walked them down the aisle too! We're tearing up!

Willowby By Watters 

This gorgeous couple were so pleased with their boho lace wedding dresses. They felt perfect for them and complemented each other beautifully. Isabelle & Jess helped each other find their dresses. The couple weren't bothered about tradition. The brides then got ready with all their bridesmaids and both mums in the morning laughing non-stop! Isabelle's sister and bridesmaid did their wedding makeup. By taking away the tradition of not seeing each other until the aisle, the brides were able to properly relax and enjoy the build-up to the big day. Isabelle & Jess' mums made the flower girl dresses and the embroidered napkins, which doubled as wedding favours

Wedding guests sitting at wedding breakfast make a toast together
Fire pit at Aswarby Rectory to keep the guest warm at the October autumn wedding
Bud vases with colourful wedding flowers alongside white candles in gold candleholders decorate the wedding tablescape
Brides have their first dance together captured in black and white wedding photo
Black and white simple and minimalist wedding seating chart with white pumpkin decor
Pink cosmos flowers in bud vase decorating the wedding tablescape
Black and white wedding menu booklet on the wedding tables
The two stunning brides in boho lace wedding dresses for their LGBTQI+ wedding
Layered chocolate wedding cake decorated with raspberries
Plain embroidered wedding napkins to act as wedding favours for guests
Cosy tablescape with white candles of different sizes are lit surrounded by pink and red wedding flowers
Blonde bride in short sleeve ASOS wedding dress with diamanté tiara
The two brides sit at their wedding breakfast and cheers their glasses at LGBTQI+ wedding
Wedding guests laugh at the wedding speeches at the Aswarby Rectory wedding
Wedding entertainer and musician plays piano at the wedding
Bride in ASOS wedding dress with bride in a pre-loved secondhand wedding dress

Using British-grown seasonal flowers is just one way this couple made more sustainable wedding decisions 

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As cliché as it sounds, enjoy it all and try not to put too much pressure on the day. It's one hell of a party and you want to be present and as chilled as you can so you can enjoy every minute. Small details and traditions don't have to be such a big deal, do whatever makes you both the happiest and most comfortable. 

Isabelle & Jess


Isabelle & Jess decided to keep with the minimalist style of Aswarby Rectory and used British-grown wild and seasonal flowers to add that laid-back boho wedding. Using local suppliers is just one of many ways you can make more sustainable choices at your wedding. Take a look at our eco weddings roundup for some more ideas. Looking for your own dream pre-loved wedding dress? Then head to Recycle My Wedding, our pre-loved platform for all things weddings! 


Entertainment: Chris Lever |
Entertainment: Skyknights |
Florist: Violet & Vine |
Wedding Dresses: ASOS |
Wedding Dresses: Willowby by Watters |
Celebrant: Chloe Green |
Honeymoon Provider: Angsana Corfu |
Wedding Rings: Daniella Draper
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