ethereal Preston Court wedding venue with neutral wedding flowers

Ethereal Pastel Wedding at Preston Court

Photography by The Light Painters

Have we potentially saved the best wedding of the year for last? We'll leave that for you to decide. Hanni & Alex tied the knot at Recommended Venue, Preston Court, with a romantic ethereal wedding theme. With moon maidens (instead of bridesmaids), a romantic lilac colour palette, a feather wedding dress from Recommended Supplier, Lovely Bride, and a cloud wedding cake, this day is just so beautiful. Especially, with decor by Recommended Supplier, The Little Wedding Warehouse. The couple truly made their day their own by throwing tradition out the door. They had mixed gender wedding parties, speeches from important women in their lives, DIY decorations, fairground games AND a granny flower girl! This is just what weddings are all about.


Ethereal wedding at Preston Court with moon maidens, a cloud wedding cake, and tumbling neutral wedding flowers 

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We both knew what look and feel we wanted for our wedding day, so we started browsing various wedding blogs like Rock My Wedding to gain an idea of realistic budgets and vendors that were local to our venue, like Little Wedding Warehouse who supplied our tables. I had an issue with my original wedding dress and the ladies at Lovely Bride London stepped in to save the day just 2 months out! 

Hanni & Alex

Vintage wedding cars parked outside of the country house wedding venue
One of the moon maidens at the wedding performs a wedding reading at the outdoor ceremony
Bride in a leather wedding dress walking with the father of the bride across the bridge to the outdoor ceremony
Wedding guests in pink, blue and green pastel wedding outfits seated for the wedding ceremony
The bride and groom share a kiss under the outdoor gazebo surrounded by neutral wedding floral arrangements
Grandma plays the role of the flower girl at the wedding with a pearl flower bag
Bride wearing white flower headpiece with feather wedding dress walking with the groom in a black suit with purple tie for confetti moment
Bride and moon maiden ride in the wedding car to the wedding venue together
The bride and groom hold hands for their outdoor wedding ceremony with neutral wedding flowers decorating the altar space
Two rows of guests throw confetti over the bride and groom in celebration
The bride and groom with their mixed gender wedding party standing next to them
Groom wearing a white shirt puts on his purple tie as he gets ready for the wedding day
Preston Court country house wedding venue
Harpist plays songs from the couple's favourite movies at the ceremony
Preston Court country house wedding venue with guests walking over the bridge
Bride wearing feather sleeve wedding dress and flower enamel headband
Groom wearing a special gold bumble bee pin on his purple tie
Wedding guests wearing bright and pastel wedding fashion walking to their seats
Bride wearing feather wedding dress with funky sunglasses and headband posing with the groom with purple accessories
Moon maidens in pastel wedding outfits and crescent moon shaped headbands in vintage campervan
The bride and groom have special confetti moment as they celebrate being married
Grandma throws confetti on the gras as flower girl
Bridesmaid in grey pyjamas getting ready for the wedding day
Bridal party on the bed laughing together as they get ready for the wedding day in matching grey and white pyjamas

Preston Court Wedding 

Hanni & Alex married in the Kent countryside at Preston Court wedding venue in an intimate and magical island ceremony surrounded by their closest friends and family. The couple chose the unique venue because of its slightly Hobbit-y feel. It matched their vision completely! The day was filled with so much character and personality! The couple had fairground games from carousels to coconut shies, flower girl grannies, and surprise book favours that alluded to their love of folklore! Hanni & Alex took traditional wedding roles and gave them a little boot out the door. The groom’s party included a best woman and groomsmen while the bride had two best men and moon maidens.

Ethereal Pastel Wedding Theme

The styling consisted of a romantic pastel palette and mixed-in neutrals to keep everything contemporary. Tumbling floral arrangements and arches decorated the venue and added a whimsical feel to the pastel theme wedding decor and venue. There were plenty of moons and lilac tableware for an ethereal vibe. What made Hanni & Alex’s wedding day so special to them was getting close friends and family involved in DIY! The banners, tablecloths, illustrated invitations, and embroidered napkins were all handmade. What incredible wedding keepsakes! As the couple are both vegetarian and a fair few of their friends and family are vegan, they decided to have a completely plant-based menu

White wedding car transportation for the Preston Court wedding with the bride and groom standing in the back posing together
Wedding drinks hydration station with glass dispensers filled with juices
Romantic wedding table setting with lilac wedding napkins, gold cutlery, white plates and arched place name cards
Wedding favours signage with a book case filled with wrapped up books for guests to choose a surprise book
Three tier white frosted wedding cake with clouds iced on and custom cake toppers
Pastel wedding theme at Preston Court with neon wedding sign, pink wedding banner sign and whimsical neutral flowers
Moon maiden maid of honour reads out a wedding speech at the wedding reception
Preston Court wedding with a pastel theme and decorations including pink bunting and lights
Vintage green wedding car in front of the Kent wedding venue with the bride and groom
Magical lantern parade send off for the bride and groom at ethereal wedding
Neutral wedding flower columns decorating the top table with neutral wedding flowers, a neon sign and banner
A carousel at fairground wedding with pastel wedding flowers
Preston Court wedding venue with banners and pastel pink and lilac bunting
Mixed gender wedding party with groomsmen and best woman posing with the bride and groom
Pink and black wedding table name signage
Joint wedding speech performed by the bride and groom in front of their sweetheart table
Wedding table plan signage with neutral wedding flowers
Carousel at fairground wedding featuring the whole wedding party in group wedding photo
Pink, white and lilac wedding table flower centrepiece
Wedding guest walking around the fairground wedding at Preston Court playing games
Moon maidens in pastel bridesmaid dresses next to the vintage campervan
Bride in feather wedding dress with sunglasses posing with the groom
Hoopla fairground game at wedding for guests to play
Italian wedding canapés food serving idea
Guests pick up surprise wrapped books as their wedding favours
Bear shaped macarons wedding favours for guests

This wedding has such a fairytale vibe with a romantic lantern parade and surprise book wedding favours

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Our favourite part of the day was our lantern parade. It felt so magical walking into the party barn with all our friends and family to have our first dance, lit by glowing lanterns. Another of our favourite moments was having my nana as a flower granny! Traditional roles were swept aside with speeches by important women in our lives whilst our friends made up the majority of the special roles throughout the day. 

Hanni & Alex


Hanni & Alex’s Preston Court wedding is certainly a wedding we’ll always use as an example of doing things your way. Just look how it pays off! This couple had best women and moon maidens in their wedding party. Take a look at our article all about mixed gender wedding parties for more inspiration. Hanni & Alex made their own traditions with a joint wedding speech. Wondering what that entails? Here is our advice on how to write a joint wedding speech


Venue: Preston Court |
Photographer: The Light Painters |
Harpist: Glenda Allaway |
Florist: Gloria Studios |
Food: Cura London |
Cake Maker: Süss Cake Studio |
Wedding Dress: Charlie Brear |
Bridal Boutique: Lovely Bride London |
Bridal Jacket: Rixo |
Bridesmaid Dresses: Ghost |
Moon Headbands: Hood London |
Bridal Headdress: Megan Therese |
Bridal Bag: Clio Peppiat |
Wedding Jewellery, Wedding Ring & Tie Pin: Alex Monroe |
Wedding Jewellery: Sezane |
Groom's Suit: Paul Smith |
Groom's Shoes: Joseph Cheaney & Sons |
Bridal Shoes: Loeffler Randall |
Stationery: Lucy March Studio |
Fairground Games: Salty Carnival Kiss |
Paper Table Flowers & Cake Toppers: Sarah Louise Matthews |
Custom Embroidered Napkins: Suzy Dream Store |
Invitation Illustrations: Alxndra Cook |
Ceramics: Georgie Mcausland |
Transport: Quirky Cars |
Macaron Favours: Mandy Teddy Bear Macaroons |
Honeymoon Provider: Patchwork Honeymoon Registry
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