Retro heart shaped wedding cake for Valentine's Day wedding ideas

The Best Romantic Valentine's Day Wedding Ideas

Photography by Daniel McClane Photography

Your wedding day is all about celebrating your love story! So, naturally, your wedding day will have a flair for romance. However, if you really want to go all out, then we’re here to help with the best Valentine’s Day wedding ideas. Perhaps you’re actually getting married on Valentine’s Day and want some subtle or obvious nods to the day. We’ve rounded up Valentine’s Day themed stationery, flowers, cakes, fashion, accessories, signage, cocktails, lighting, tablescapes, decor and more! It’s a big one, so let’s get into it! 


The best Valentine’s Day wedding ideas to get you feeling the love and toast to your happily ever after 

Valentine's Stationery and Signage 

Your stationery is technically the first glimpse of your day that your guests will see with the save the dates and then wedding invitations, so give them a little teaser of what to expect with stationery that matches the theme of your day. We LOVE a pink and red colour palette! We even predicted it in our 2023 wedding trends, but you’ll want to see our 2024 wedding trends for more predictions!

Heart shaped red and white wedding stationery with wedding invitations and RSVP
Pale pink wedding stationery invitation with pink bow and heart shaped wedding sunglasses
Squiggly red and pink large wedding welcome sign for country house wedding Valentine's Day wedding idea
Valentine's wedding theme with pink and red colour palette showcasing their customised wedding banner sign

Pink and Red Wedding Flowers 

Your Valentine’s Day flowers and bouquets will also look incredible in pink and red tones! The most popular flowers for Valentine’s Day are, of course, roses! The ultimate flower of love and romance. Although, other popular flowers include tulips (because they symbolise true love), orchids, carnations, peonies, and chrysanthemums. So you can’t go wrong by including these gorgeous flowers in your arrangements! You can even get more and go for heart-shaped bouquets!

Anemones, poppies, roses and more flowers make up this Valentine's Day inspired wedding bouquet
King proteas and orchids in this pink wedding bouquet held by bridesmaid in pink satin bridesmaid dress
Bride holding all white bouquet of white roses
Dark red and pink wedding bouquets for Valentine's Day wedding ideas
Pale pink bouquets of peonies for bridal bouquet
Bride holding Valentine's inspired wedding bouquet with roses and tulips
Bride in statement puff sleeve wedding dress holding different coloured bouquet of roses
London wedding with the bride holding a pink and red wedding bouquet of roses with dried dyed palm leaves and pampas grass

Jewellery and Accessories 

To make your jewellery and accessories fit in with a Valentine’s Day theme, obviously, a heart shape is the way to go. Heart-shaped jewellery, shoe decals that spell out L-O-V-E, choose hearts on your tiara or get them embroidered into your veil! Plus, if you want something to feel more romantic, personalise it! Add a love note, your initials, your wedding date or anything that makes that item feel more like you. It becomes more like a sentimental gift that way. Don’t forget your sexy bridal underwear or funky nail art! 

Bride with red heart nail art for her wedding nails
Bride wearing heart gold metal bracelet with engraving for wedding day
Valentine's Day wedding ideas and accessories for brides with heart shaped wedding sunglasses and hot pink shoes
White wedding shoes with sequin decal spelling out love in the shape of a heart

Pink or Red Bridesmaid Dresses

Onto wedding fashion! Luckily, pink and red are two colours that look amazing on everyone. They’re complementary to so many skin tones. Take a look at how these stunning bridal parties wore their dresses! Don’t forget there’s always the more modern choice of mismatched bridesmaid dresses, so you can get in multiple tones from your wedding colour palette.

Bridesmaids in light and dark pink satin bridesmaid dresses in mismatched tones
Bridal party wearing pink bridesmaid dresses with white heart shaped retro wedding sunglasses
Bridal party wearing bright vibrant red bridesmaid dresses for Valentine's Day wedding ideas roundup
Bridal party wearing red satin bridesmaid dresses with the bride in a plunging wedding dress
Two bridesmaids wearing hot pink bridesmaid suits walking with the groom at city wedding
Bridal party wearing mismatched bridesmaid dresses in different patterns and shades of pink
Bridal party in pink sequin dresses celebrating with the bride in a sparkly sequin dress
Bride and bridesmaids carrying pink bouquets to complement the pink mismatched bridesmaid dresses for Valentine's Day wedding inspiration

Pink or Red Wedding Dresses

Now, this wouldn’t really be the ultimate guide to Valentine’s Day wedding ideas if we didn’t have colourful wedding dresses! Forget tradition! At Rock My Wedding, we’re all about having Your Day, Your Way, and if that means you were an attention-grabbing hot pink wedding dress, we’re so here for it. If you’d love to do this but are a little hesitant, consider changing into one of these later on! Wedding reception dress outfit changes are so popular now. 

Bride in red satin wedding dress for festive wedding with bridal cape
Tulle red wedding dress Valentine's Day wedding ideas for wedding fashion
Elegant fairytale princess coloured wedding dress with ruffles in shade of pink
Bride in tulle ruffle pinky peach wedding dress for bride
Bride in pale pink wedding dress walking with bride in a sparkling balloon sleeve wedding dress
Valentine's Day wedding ideas with bride wearing a hot neon pink Vivienne Westwood wedding dress
Patterned pink and white bespoke wedding dress by Chantelle Sophia with veil
Valentine's Day wedding theme with the bride in a custom strapless corset boned pink wedding dress

Pink or Red Wedding Suits

We could never forget the grooms! Grooms traditionally have a lot more freedom with their styling than brides do, so take advantage of it! Go for a hot pink velvet suit or a double-breasted pale pink suit jacket. It looks so good! Real men wear pink after all. No Mojo Dojo Casa House vibes over here, we’re all about the Barbie Dreamhouse!  

Groom in pale pink lilac wedding suit holding a pastel wedding bouquet for wedding
Groom in hot pink velvet double-breasted suit jacket walking with the bride
Valentine's Day wedding idea with groom wearing a custom dusky pink velvet suit jacket
Two grooms wearing a red and pink wedding suit with matching bow ties and accessories for Valentine's Day inspired wedding

Personalised Love Notes and Vows

The spirit of Valentine’s Day is to show how much you appreciate your romantic partner and what better way to do that than with a personal love note or wedding vows? Personalising your wedding vows is such an important step if you’re writing your own vows. Thankfully, we have all the advice you’ll need! Vow booklets, wedding newspapers and handwritten love notes on the morning of the wedding are beautiful ways to make this gesture. To make it more special, our Valentine’s Day wedding idea is to show love and appreciation to more than just your financé. Why not gift personalised messages of love to the mother and father of the bride/groom, any children at the wedding, bridesmaids and groomsmen, too? 

Bride in off the shoulder wedding dress holds a wedding vow booklet as she reads them out at her wedding ceremony
The bride reads a handwritten note gifted to her on the morning of the wedding by the groom
Father of the bride wears a tie personalised with a message from the bride and an image sewn on
Personalised embroidered napkin for the wedding written from the bride to her son

Valentine's Wedding Cocktails 

Carry over the Valentine’s Day theme into your wedding drinks! If you’re having a cocktail hour, you’d be missing out on a big opportunity if you didn’t make them pink and name them ‘love potion’ or something similar. Check out our wedding cocktail ideas article for more ideas on what flavours to shake together and cocktail names, too! 

Dark pink cocktails for pink and red theme wedding at Middleton Lodge
Cocktail glasses filled with pink cocktail drink with white edible flower decorations
Valentine's Day wedding ideas with cocktail tower of drinks decorated with pink petals
Tall glasses filled with pink cocktails with black straws, ice cubes and edible flowers

Romantic wedding favours 

Our fave Valentine’s Day wedding idea for your wedding favours is heart-shaped sunglasses! They’re fun, budget-friendly and look great in photos. Wedding sunglasses are kid-friendly too! You could also consider heart-shaped biscuits or sweets and personalised love notes to guests.

Silver jewellery wedding gift for the mother of the bride
Wedding soap with pink wax seal for guest's wedding favours
White plate with pink wedding napkin, place name and pink heart shaped sunglasses wedding favours with disco ball decor
Pink heart shaped sunglasses personalised with guest's names for wedding table plans and favours in one

Valentine’s Day Wedding Table Decor 

Heart-shaped place names, pink coloured glassware, red menu cards, handpainted candles with hearts and flowers, the list is endless of how much fun you could have with Valentine’s themed table decor. Just take a look at these super aesthetically pleasing tablescapes. They feature heavily on our tablescapes Pinterest board

Pink and white wedding place setting for Valentine's Day wedding ideas with minimalist stationery
Light and bright pink candles with red candles in gold candle holders with white rose flowers in bud vases with red carnations
Light pink wedding table cloth and candles with pink and red wedding table number sign and place setting with bows
Valentine's Day wedding ideas with a heart shaped wedding menu sitting on the plates

Sweetheart Tables

We couldn’t call it the day of love and romance without something that gives you, the happy couple, some time to properly soak in the magic. A sweetheart table is a table made just for two. Instead of the traditional top table option where you sit amongst your family and wedding party, opt for a sweetheart table so you and your wife or husband can sit together in perfect matrimony. We’ve got a whole roundup dedicated to these! 

Disco ball wedding inspiration at outdoor wedding breakfast with romantic sweetheart table
Hot pink table cloth on sweetheart table Valentine's Day wedding idea with disco balls and waterfall flowers
Sweetheart table with the chairs decorated with white fabric and foliage
Valentine's Day wedding ideas with the bride and groom sitting at intimate wedding sweetheart table

Valentine’s Day Wedding Cakes

We also happen to have a whole roundup dedicated to retro wedding cakes. Don’t these just look so delicious? Take the retro vibes to a whole new level with these heart-shaped retro wedding cakes that are perfect for any Valentine’s wedding! Keep it traditional with white icing or embrace the vibes with pink and red frosting. Add a heart-shaped cake topper, pink flowers or if cakes aren’t your vibe, there’s always a pink doughnut tower!

Heart shaped retro wedding cake with dark navy, pink and white icing spelling out 'Just Married'
Valentine's Day wedding idea with heart shaped wedding cake with retro icing
DIY homemade heart shaped retro wedding cake spelling out 'I Do'
Traditional and classic white heart shaped wedding cake with plenty of frosting
Valentine's Day wedding ideas with heart shaped wedding cake decorated with pink icing and maraschino cherries
Hot pink heart shaped retro wedding cake with cherries and mini love hearts
The bride and groom cut into their white heart shaped wedding cake
Heart shaped wedding cake for Valentine's theme wedding with pink and red colour palette with cherries decorating the cake

Wedding Lighting 

Don’t underestimate the wedding lighting! It really does set the whole ambience of your day. To keep everything feeling romantic, we recommend plenty of candlelight and twinkling fairy lights. For decoration purposes or photo backdrops, consider these LOVE letter lights or customised neon signs with romantic quotes. Maybe you get a neon sign for your favourite song lyric or book quote… 

White neon sign on wooden crate decorated with foliage and lanterns
Large neon sign spelling out 'Love' with hanging lights at outdoor area
Mr & Mrs letter lights with tree centrepieces on tables with hanging tea lights
LOVE letter lights on the dance floor for wedding decor - Valentine's Day wedding ideas
Customised white neon sign reading 'happily ever after'
Wedding lighting ideas with letter lights spelling out 'LOVE'
Hot pink neon wedding sign spelling out 'crazy in love' with pink flower decorations
Valentine's Day wedding ideas neon lighting with custom 'you & me' sign

Romantic Playlists and Music

Finally, we’ve got the music! Now, don’t deny it. We all have a Spotify playlist with all our favourite romance tunes in one spot. Don’t we? If you don’t, then start making one! Think about what songs have played a part in your relationship, which one might you choose for a first dance, the first look or walking down the aisle. Our Valentine’s Day wedding ideas wouldn’t be complete without a list of the ultimate love songs. 

The groom lifts the bride up in epic lift caught perfectly by the light and disco ball
Two grooms in white suits at destination wedding dancing together on the dance floor
Bride in long sleeve lace wedding dress dancing with groom at barn wedding
Bride and groom dancing surrounded by fairy lights at barn wedding

Valentine’s Day wedding ideas that will have you falling in love all over again


If these Valentine’s Day wedding ideas are right up your alley, then you’ll love our pink wedding theme inspiration. From pink buttonholes to pink nails and flowers, it’s all there! At the same time, it wouldn’t be right to post our Valentine’s Day wedding inspiration without something for the gals. Take a look at our Galentine’s theme ideas article for a complete guide on ways you can celebrate with your best girls! 


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