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Love Rocks Southlands Barn Wedding

Photography by Phoebe Rossi Photography

Lulu & John's sensational rock n' roll wedding at Southlands Barn is truly something special. Their theme centred around music festival culture, and the idea that 'Love Rocks', and we wholeheartedly agree. I mean, have you seen our name? With fantastic, intricate details, an exuberant colour scheme, some killer alternative looks and one of the most insane bridal crowns we've ever seen, it's safe to say that it's not just love that rocks. This entire wedding does. Recommended Supplier Phoebe Rossi Photography captured the incredible energy perfectly - with every delicious detail accounted for.


Southlands Barn wedding with rock and roll theme and red bridesmaid dresses

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The vibe of our day was based around music festivals and the theme that 'LOVE ROCKS!'. John and I are in the music business and a huge part of our lives revolves around festivals and live music. We're very much into the rock and metal genre and work with bands so our wedding was very true to our personalities! I managed to purchase a bunch of decorations online around Valentine's that fit in with our style and we brought our big 'Love Rocks' neon sign from home! My wonderful Mum also made the favours and napkin holders.

Lulu & John

Gothic wedding dessert table with black wedding cupcakes, a two tier black wedding cake with gold rim and dried flower wedding cake toppers, and a single black wedding cake with gold rim and dried flower wedding cake toppers
Bride in off shoulder lace wedding dress with corset style top and red rose and gold halo bridal crown holding hands with groom in crushed velvet burnt orange grooms blazer and dried flower boutonniere standing in front of large wedding neon sign at Southlands Barn
Southlands Barn wedding venue reception room with hanging bottle lights, a balloon wedding arch and a large pink wedding neon light
Mirrored wedding welcome sign with red rose and leopard print on wood slice next to pillar candles at Southlands Barn
Black, red and white pampas grass aisle flower arrangements at Southlands Barn
Bride in off shoulder lace wedding dress with corset style top and red rose and gold halo bridal crown holding red rose, pampas grass and dried flower bridal bouquet standing with bridesmaids in deep red mismatched bridesmaid dresses
Alternative wedding guest book with skulls and a garden rose - death do us part at Southlands Barn
Single black wedding cake with gold rim and dried flower wedding cake toppers on gold cake stand
Groom in crushed velvet burnt orange grooms blazer and dried flower boutonniere holding hands with bride in off shoulder lace wedding dress with corset style top and red rose and gold halo bridal crown holding red rose, pampas grass and dried flower bridal bouquet doing colourful confetti exit at Southlands Barn wedding venue
Bride in off shoulder lace wedding dress with corset style top and red rose and gold halo bridal crown holding red rose, pampas grass and dried flower bridal bouquet doing colourful confetti exit with groom in crushed velvet burnt orange grooms blazer and dried flower boutonniere at Southlands Barn
Groom in crushed velvet burnt orange grooms blazer and dried flower boutonniere standing and posing with groomsmen in mismatched groomsmen outfits at Southlands Barn
Groom in crushed velvet burnt orange grooms blazer and dried flower boutonniere holding bride's hand up wearing off shoulder lace wedding dress with corset style top and red rose and gold halo bridal crown at Southlands Barn
Bride in off shoulder lace wedding dress with corset style top and red rose and gold halo bridal crown holding red rose, pampas grass and dried flower bridal bouquet walking down the aisle at Southlands Barn
Groom in crushed velvet burnt orange grooms blazer and dried flower boutonniere and bride in off shoulder lace wedding dress with corset style top and red rose and gold halo bridal crown at the alter of Southlands Barn wedding venue reception room with hanging bottle lights, a balloon wedding arch and a large pink wedding neon light
Skull wedding decor at rock and roll themed wedding at Southlands Barn
Glittery red heart wedding decor with black red and white pampas grass flower arrangement at Southlands Barn

Southlands Barn rock and roll wedding

Southlands Barn wedding stands as a charming testament to rustic elegance and natural beauty. The venue exudes an air of timeless allure, with its weathered beams and expansive windows framing panoramic views of rolling hills and open skies. The wedding barn's warm, inviting atmosphere provides the perfect canvas for couples seeking a wedding experience that blends pastoral charm with modern comfort. From the meticulously curated gardens that lend themselves to whimsical outdoor ceremonies to the spacious interior adorned with delicate string lights, Southlands Barn offers a versatile backdrop for couples to realise their dream wedding. At Lulu & John's wedding, the air was electrified with the echoes of riffs and the heart-pounding rhythm of drums as love took centre stage at a rock and roll festival-themed day. Against the rustic backdrop, the bride and groom exchange their vows beneath a vibrant canopy of neon lights. Guests, dressed in their vintage best, swayed to the timeless tunes that have defined generations. The aisle song was Summer Always Comes Again by Voyager. The exit song - I Was Made For Lovin' You by Kiss. You get the idea. As the sun dipped below the horizon, the celebration ignited with a fusion of rock anthems and heartfelt toasts. The groom's crushed velvet burnt orange blazer paired with the bride's beyond-fantastic floral gold bridal crown looked absolutely perfect. The pair both donned sunglasses and threw out a lot of rock and roll signs. This wedding wasn't just a union of two souls; it was a harmonious collision of music, love, and unforgettable moments, creating a symphony of memories that will resonate for a lifetime.

Wedding high table with wicker chairs by gothic wedding tablescape with deep red table runner, pampas grass and dried flower table centrepieces, red tapered candles in black bottles, fairy light wall and black just married sign
Bride in off shoulder lace wedding dress with corset style top and red rose, gold halo bridal crown and sunglasses holding red rose, pampas grass and dried flower bridal bouquet walking with groom incrushed velvet burnt orange grooms blazer and dried flower boutonniere and sunglasses at Southlands Barn wedding
Gothic rock and roll wedding tablescape with deep red wedding table runner, black plates, black napkins, gold cutlery, red tapered candles in black wine bottles, and red white and black pampas grass wedding centrepieces at Southlands Barn
Groom in crushed velvet burnt orange grooms blazer and dried flower boutonniere dancing with bride in off shoulder lace wedding dress with corset style top at Southlands Barn wedding venue
Bride in off shoulder lace wedding dress with corset style top and red rose and gold halo bridal crown standing with groom in crushed velvet burnt orange grooms blazer and dried flower boutonniere in Southlands Barn wedding venue reception room with gothic rock and roll wedding tablescape with deep red wedding table runner, black plates and black napkins
Groom in crushed velvet burnt orange grooms blazer and dried flower boutonniere holding hands with bride in off shoulder lace wedding dress with corset style top and red rose and gold halo bridal crown holding red rose, pampas grass and dried flower bridal bouquet
Bride in off shoulder lace wedding dress with corset style top and red rose and gold halo bridal crown holding hands with groom in crushed velvet burnt orange grooms blazer and dried flower boutonniere laughing and posing standing in Southlands Barn wedding venue reception room with a balloon wedding arch and a large pink wedding neon light
Groom in crushed velvet burnt orange grooms blazer and dried flower boutonniere cutting black wedding cakes with bride in off shoulder lace wedding dress with corset style top and red rose and gold halo bridal crown
Bride in off shoulder lace wedding dress with corset style top and red rose and gold halo bridal crown dancing with groom in crushed velvet burnt orange grooms blazer and dried flower boutonniere for their first wedding dance at Southlands Barn
Bride in off shoulder lace wedding dress with corset style top and red rose and gold halo bridal crown holding red rose, pampas grass and dried flower bridal bouquet on the grounds of Southlands Barn
Groom in crushed velvet burnt orange grooms blazer and dried flower boutonniere holding hands with bride in off shoulder lace wedding dress with corset style top and red rose and gold halo bridal crown
Bride in off shoulder lace wedding dress with corset style top and red rose and gold halo bridal crown holding hands with groom in crushed velvet burnt orange grooms blazer and dried flower boutonniere doing colourful red wedding smoke bomb photoshoot
Groom in crushed velvet burnt orange grooms blazer and dried flower boutonniere holding hands with bride in off shoulder lace wedding dress with corset style top and red rose and gold halo bridal crown on the grounds of Southlands Barn wedding venue
Large wedding grazing table at Southlands Barn rock and roll themed wedding
Bride and groom wearing alternative silver wedding rings
Rock and roll wedding tablescape with deep red wedding table runner, black plates, black napkins, gold cutlery, red tapered candles in black wine bottles, and red white and black pampas grass wedding centrepieces at Southlands Barn
Groom in crushed velvet burnt orange grooms blazer and dried flower boutonniere dancing with bride in off shoulder lace wedding dress with corset style top and red rose and gold halo bridal crown at Southlands Barn
Bride in off shoulder lace wedding dress with corset style top and red rose, gold halo bridal crown and sunglasses holding red rose, pampas grass and dried flower bridal bouquet walking with groom incrushed velvet burnt orange grooms blazer and dried flower boutonniere and sunglasses at Southlands Barn wedding

That red and gold floral, spiked bridal crown? INCREDIBLE. SHOW-STOPPING. 

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If we had any advice... Definitely research and plan ahead! A wedding is a lot of organisation with many plates to juggle. We pondered a lot about elements that were important to us and those that we decided not to spend money on. Traditions aren't for everyone either. I'd definitely recommend taking the time to try samples from your caterers ahead of time so you can craft exactly what you like and don't like. We tried so many cake flavours and loved them all. But in the end, we went for a much-complimented choice of lemon and blueberry and chocolate orange!


From start to finish, Lulu & John's celebration at Southlands Barn was an absolute riot. And we mean that in the best way possible. The outfits, the vibe, the music, the electricity... Everything. And obviously, the venue tied everything together, making each and every photo aesthetically pleasing as all heck. If you want your venue to do the same, then our list of Instagrammable wedding venues will be sure to help. Remember - wedding planning takes time. This means it's even more important to know what's what in the two weeks leading up to it. Luckily for you, our list of last-minute wedding preparations can lend a hand there.


Videography: Jake Ten |
Florist: One Flower |
Food: Graz'n |
Cake Maker: Feast Worthing |
Hair Stylist: Esme Houslop |
Makeup Artist: Ella Louise Tanner |
Bridal Boutique: White Leaf Boutique |
Fashion Accessories: Carbickova Crowns |
Shoes: Esska Shoes |
Shoes: Dr Martens
Real WeddingSouth EastSpringBarns and FarmsRusticFestivalGothicRedsOrangesBrightsdark£10k - £15k