The Rise of Men's Engagement Rings

In recent years, men’s engagement rings have seen a significant rise in popularity, challenging traditional norms for most Western countries. This change reflects a shift towards equality in relationships. Once primarily worn by women, engagement rings for men are becoming a modern symbol of commitment that both partners share. Whether it's sleek metal bands, bold gemstone accents, or engraved designs, these rings now come in a variety of styles tailored to masculine tastes. In this article, we’ll explore the evolution of engagement ring traditions, how men could wear their rings, and our top shopping picks. 

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Engagement Ring Traditions 

Engagement rings were initially worn as a sign of ownership way back when they were first documented in the Roman Empire and were only given out by the wealthiest men. Now, engagement rings have become a romantic symbol of commitment. Engagement rings were originally made for leather, bone, or hemp but now are made from precious metals and diamonds, so they’re still a coveted item as well as a significant symbol of your relationship status. 

In some countries, like Chile, Argentina, and Brazil, both men and women traditionally wear engagement rings, which then also serve as wedding rings. In Iceland, engagement rings are exclusively sold as sets of two. In Nordic countries, men wear engagement rings but in Finland, it’s common that only the woman would receive a wedding ring. 

Why Are Engagement Rings For Men Becoming More Popular?  

Each culture comes with its own traditions but it’s so exciting to see how those traditions are changing as equality in lifetime partnerships, gender equality and the recognition of same-sex marriage increases, meaning men’s engagement rings are becoming a lot more popular. Celebrities like Michael Bublé, Ed Sheeran, Ryan Reynolds, and Brooklyn Beckham have also helped to make engagement rings more appealing. 

Engagement rings for men are also becoming more popular as traditions around proposing are changing. Some couples are facing their engagement and proposal as a joint decision since engagement and weddings are such a big financial investment and decision. Couples may want to pick their own rings or experience the process of creating their rings together. Gender roles for straight couples are also changing with leap-year proposals and women also getting down on one knee. 

How To Wear Men’s Engagement Rings 

Again, this is something that is entirely dependent on your culture, the country you live in and even just personal preference. When it comes to what hand you should wear your engagement ring on, there’s no correct answer. In most of South American countries, the man’s engagement ring is typically worn on the right hand and then after the wedding ceremony, the ring is moved to the left hand whereas Germany does the reverse. The engagement ring is first worn on the left hand before being moved to the right after the wedding. 

Also, the way you wear your engagement ring may be impacted by whether you decide to wear a men’s wedding band. We have a dedicated article on wedding ring stacking with tips on which metals and materials work well together from the experts at Taylor & Hart. However, you may decide to wear your engagement ring and wedding bands on separate hands or fingers. The choice is yours. 

What Do Men’s Engagement Rings Look Like? 

Men’s engagement rings typically have a different aesthetic from women's, often focusing on more subtle, masculine designs. They won’t have a huge diamond centrepiece like most women’s rings do. However, there is a wide variety of styles, allowing men to choose rings that suit their personal tastes and preferences. Here are some common design elements for men’s engagement rings:

Simple Metal Bands

Most men opt for simple metal bands made of gold, platinum, white gold, titanium, or tungsten which are often a lot chunkier. They have a sturdier, more substantial look compared to the more delicate bands typically associated with women’s engagement rings. These rings can have smooth, polished surfaces, or they may feature textures like brushed, matte, or hammered finishes for a more rugged look. Some rings may also combine different metals, such as white and yellow gold, for added visual interest.

Diamond/Gemstone Accents

Men’s engagement rings often feature small, subtle diamonds or other gemstones, set in more discreet ways than the traditional solitaire setting seen in women’s rings. Sometimes this could even be a gemstone on the inside of the ring rather than a flashy diamond on the outside. The diamonds or precious stones are set into the ring rather than prong settings. 

Engravings 

Since men’s engagement rings lack that big sparkler, many men choose to personalise their rings with engravings. These could be initials, dates or quotes that mean a lot to you both as a couple. Other engravings could be religious or cultural symbols like a Celtic Knot or even a family crest. Signet-style engagement rings could be an option for men wanting a classic look. 

Vintage Styles

One thing that women’s and men’s engagement rings have in common is the current ring trends. We’re seeing a rise in vintage and art-deco-inspired engagement rings with bolder diamonds, trinity stones, and chunky metals with milgrain details for a timeless look.

Modern Styles

In a similar way, unique modern styles such as black diamonds and black metal bands are also very popular. The masculine and almost industrial style of these rings makes them unique and eye-catching. Most of these modern rings also have a matte finish to them for a super sleek look. 

Alternative Materials 

Sustainable or eco-friendly recycled materials are becoming more common and may be something that’s important to you. For men who prefer non-traditional materials, engagement rings made of titanium, tungsten, or carbon fibre are popular. These materials are durable, lightweight, and offer a modern, industrial look. Some rings may also have a wood or ceramic inlay for a natural, rustic feel while still being modern.

Discover men’s engagement rings traditions, trends and shop our top picks 

Looking for some more inspiration? Our guide to alternative engagement rings is a great place to start. We discuss unique ring designs to planting trees, getting tattoos, and even more unusual ideas. Plus, take a look at our easy tips to keeping your rings sparkling with our how to clean your engagement ring article.