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The Pumping House LGBTQI+ Wedding

Photography by Gina Fernandes Photography

Joe & Glenn's glorious celebration at The Pumping House is one for the wedding books. If those books are about beautiful people coming together to commemorate a beautiful love story, that is. The pair seamlessly showed their personalities through their decorative choices, and the minimalistic-luxe theme and tablescapes added a luxurious, chic feel to the entire day. Because the venue has so much character as it is, Joe & Glenn opted for clean, sharp lines so as not to detract from the building. Recommended supplier Gina Fernandes Photography did a superb job of capturing this uber-stylish, elegant wedding, and everything that made this day oh so special.


Elegant, personal LGBTQIA+ wedding at The Pumping House with Irish nods and musical bops 

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It was important that there were a lot of personal touches throughout, with Glenn's native Ireland, our home, being a recurring theme. We also wanted a nod to our love of travel. This included the table names, our "guestbook" being replaced by vintage postcards that we read while on our honeymoon, and using a Honeymoon Fund as opposed to a traditional gift list. Sharing platters, an open gin bar and games helped to keep the day relaxed and sociable, as well as not having traditional bridesmaids or groomsmen, but instead giving roles to children in our close families.

Joe & Glenn

Grooms in complementing dark grey grooms suits, floral ties and matching boutonnieres and pocket squares laughing at The Pumping House wedding venue
Minimal luxe wedding tablescape with foliage arrangements, white garden roses and dried flowers in glass vases and glass cage candle holders with pillar candles inside
Shadows of the grooms in alternative couples portrait at The Pumping House wedding venue
Flower girls in white dresses holding dried flower, eucalyptus and garden rose floral hoop walking down the aisle
Grooms in complementing dark grey grooms suits, floral ties and matching boutonnieres and pocket squares doing petal confetti exit at stylish wedding
Groom in dark grey checkered groom suit and groom in grey checkered groom suit exchanging rings at the alter of The Pumping House
Alternative couples portraits; Grooms in complementing dark grey checkered suits, floral ties and matching boutonnieres through a mirror
Groom in dark grey checkered suit with floral tie and boutonniere with groom in grey checkered suit with light floral tie, boutonniere and pocket square signing the register at chic stylish wedding
Alternative wedding guestbook - travel post cards used as a wedding guestbook with minimalistic white wedding sign in black frame
Grooms in complementing dark grey checkered suits, floral ties and matching boutonnieres and pocket squares exchanging rings at The Pumping House wedding
Young flower girl giving wedding speech at stylish chic wedding
Minimalistic wedding table place name; Ivory plate with black rim, white wedding napkin, dark grey place name with gold calligraphy and eucalyptus twig
Grooms in complementing dark grey checkered suits, floral ties and matching boutonnieres and pocket squares walking hand in hand during wedding petal confetti exit
Classic clean wedding reception room with white tablecloths, large LED wedding sign, grey pillars and white chairs
Groom wearing grey checkered trousers and crisp white shirt putting on grooms shoes
Grooms in complementing dark grey checkered suits, floral ties and matching boutonnieres and pocket squares standing by large vintage map decorations
Minimalistic-luxe wedding sign on black frame with pillar candles and foliage decor
Groom in dark grey checkered suit with floral tie and boutonniere kissing groom in grey checkered suit with light floral tie, boutonniere and pocket square on the head
Grooms' checkered suits hanging in the getting ready room of The Pumping Room wedding venue
Three tiered wedding cake with ombre cool toned grey icing with foliage, dried flower and garden rose cake decorations on small white cake stand

Chic, stylish wedding at the pumping house 

We wanted the day to feel as relaxed as possible. That even came down to the choice of food. We wanted there to be plenty (and there really was!) and we chose family-style sharing homely dishes. The venue is so beautiful, so we wanted to let it speak for itself. We kept décor clean and minimal in black and grey to fit the industrial style. As it was springtime, we opted for lots of greenery. Glenn's native Ireland was represented through signage and music. The playlist from the start of the day through to the reception was compiled by us, featuring our favourite songs and artists, and songs that were special to our parents.

Joe & Glenn

Wedding guest in light grey checkered three piece suit enjoying some wedding drinks on the grounds of The Pumping Room
Grooms in dark grey checkered suit trousers, white grooms trainers and classic leather grooms brogues
Grooms in complementing dark grey checkered waistcoats doing sparkler send-off at stylish wedding
Grooms in complementing dark grey checkered waistcoats doing their first dance at The Pumping House under fairy lights
Grooms in complementing dark grey checkered suits, floral ties and matching boutonnieres and pocket squares sitting at the high table with light grey table cloth, foliage table runners, glass cage candle holders and large black wicker chairs
Grooms in dark grey checkered waistcoats doing sparkler send-off at stylish wedding at The Pumping House
Grooms in complementing checkered grey grooms suits holding hands and showing their gold wedding rings and watches
Groom in dark grey checkered three-piece suit with floral tie sitting with groom in grey checkered suit with light floral tie on the steps of The Pumping House wedding venue
Groom in dark grey checkered waistcoat and floral tie dancing at wedding party
Wedding guest in dark maroon blazer and light blue shirt laughing at wedding speeches
Groom in dark grey checkered three-piece suit with floral tie kissing groom in grey checkered suit with light floral tie on the cheek
Grooms sitting in large black wicker chairs at the head table - minimal luxe wedding tablescape with foliage arrangements, white garden roses and dried flowers in glass vases and glass cage candle holders with pillar candles inside
Wedding guests sitting on a bench on the grounds of The Pumping House wedding venue
Groom in dark grey checkered suit with floral tie and boutonniere with groom in grey checkered suit with light floral tie, boutonniere and pocket square walking through the woods at The Pumping House
Grooms in complementing dark grey checkered suits holding baby guest at stylish wedding
Grooms in dark grey checkered suits having a wedding drink with wedding guests at after ceremony celebration
Young wedding guests playing in the autumnal leaves at The Pumping House wedding venue
Grooms in complementing dark grey checkered suits, floral ties and matching boutonnieres and pocket squares holding young guest in checkered shirt at wedding

A relaxed atmosphere, clean lines and an alternative wedding guest book = a truly stunning wedding

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Choosing a favourite moment of the day is difficult. There were just so, so many to choose from. If we had to choose, though... Walking into the ceremony. We were each arm in arm with our mums and seeing all of our friends and family together in one room, some already tearing up. Everything suddenly felt so real. Sharing the moment we exchanged our vows was why the day was so special. The emotional aspects are the part of the day that you can never plan. The registrar was lovely, warm and friendly and it was a brilliant moment of laughter when she accidentally mixed up our names.

Joe & Glenn


Joe & Glenn's wedding was stylish, chic, and over-flowingly emotional. What's more to love? The use of The Pumping House as their venue was a fabulous choice too. We adore an industrial venue. If you're at the start of your planning journey, then knowing about the various kinds of venues is important. That's why our article on the different types of wedding venues is a great place to start! Speaking of venues... If you've been wondering at what point you should book your wedding venue, we've got a fabulous article on that, too. 


Entertainment: The Burgundys Band |
Entertainment: Oh! Photobooth |
Cake Maker: Georgie Laing |
Groom & Groomsmen Outfits: Tweed and Groom |
Decor and Hire: Save The Date Event Stylist |
Transport: White Taxi Weddings |
Honeymoon Provider: Trailfinders
Real WeddingEnglandEast MidlandsSpringIndustrialCivil CeremonySame-SexContemporaryWhitesGreysdark£15k - £20kGay WeddingLGBTQI+