Lesbian wedding at Bowcliffe Hall with Ghanian traditions

Ghanian British Wedding At Bowcliffe Hall

Photography by Hannah Brooke Photography

Marilyn & Jenni married at the stunning Recommended Venue, Bowcliffe Hall in West Yorkshire, a classic Grade II listed Georgian wedding venue that doesn’t need an introduction. The couple married in October and used the autumnal season as the styling inspiration behind their day. The autumnal colour palette and blooms by Recommended Supplier, The Little Flower Hut, naturally complemented the traditional country house wedding venue. Marilyn & Jenni’s wedding was also about symbolising the brides’ two cultures coming together. Ghanian traditions were included in the day including Marilyn’s waistcoat, which was made from Kente Cloth. The heartwarming day was captured by Recommended Supplier, Hannah Brooke Photography. Without further ado, let’s show you this day…


Bowcliffe Hall wedding with Ghanian traditions including Kente Cloth

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We loved every part of the day! Especially seeing all our friends and family together celebrating us. Two stand-out moments were the first look, which gave us a chance to see each other and calm our nerves before the ceremony. Singing and dancing along with the live band in the evening with our friends was another moment. There were even some roly-polies happening!

Marilyn & Jenni

Father of the bride embraces the bride in the first look reveal at country house wedding
Bowcliffe Hall wedding venue in West Yorkshire ceremony room
Father of the bride walks bride down the aisle at Bowcliffe Hall wedding with autumnal colour palette
Bride wearing a black bow tie and suit jacket with traditional Ghanian patterned waistcoat
Bride in black suit jacket with the bride in a white wedding dress holding hands for their same sex lesbian wedding ceremony
Wedding guests pose with the two brides at Bowcliffe Hall
Autumnal wedding flower bouquet with white block heel for October wedding
Autumnal floral decorations tied to the wedding chairs with ribbon
The two brides react to seeing each other in a special first look moment before the wedding ceremony
The two brides prepare to se each other for their first look moment
Two brides celebrate at the wedding as they exit to pastel wedding confetti
Bride in black suit jacket with patterned Ghanian waistcoat with floral buttonhole at multicultural lesbian LGBTQI+ wedding
Colourful pastel confetti moment for the two brides at their lesbian wedding
The brides embrace each other wearing personalised bride pyjamas as they get ready for the wedding
Wooden ring box with wedding bands for traditional same sex wedding ceremony
The brides share their first kiss as a married couple

Bowcliffe Hall Lesbian Wedding

Marilyn & Jenni’s vibe was autumnal, utilising in-season flowers and colours throughout the day at  Bowcliffe Hall. The couple chose the country house because of the amazing rooms and designs throughout. The brides could relax knowing they wouldn’t have to worry about extra decor for the venue and let its traditional yet modern elements speak for themselves. For the ceremony, Marilyn & Jenni used the traditional hall and for the evening, they moved to the Blackburn Wing. The show stealer was the flowers! All the guests commented on how beautiful the flowers were! The florist used autumnal flowers that also tied in with the flowers in Bowcliffe Hall’s gardens.

Ghanian Traditions

Music was something Marilyn & Jenni wanted to feature heavily in their day. The brides had live music at every part of the day (ceremony, drinks reception and evening)! As well as reflecting things they love, Marilyn & Jenni’s marriage is about two cultures coming together. Marilyn's waistcoat was created out of Kente Cloth, which is a traditional Ghanaian cloth. For the wedding cake, flowers were made out of the Kente Cloth to add as decoration. Plantain chips were given out to guests in the evening too. Marilyn & Jenni had DIY elements too, Jenni's dad made a card box and Marilyn's sister got to work on the calligraphy and save-the-dates.

Brides at golden hour as the pastel confetti falls around them at Bowcliffe Hall wedding
Simple minimalist white wedding place setting at Bowcliffe Hall country house wedding venue in West Yorkshire
Brides blow the confetti for cute couple portrait
Bride in bold Ghanian patterned waistcoat being embraced from behind by bride in a white wedding dress
Wedding band plays live music at the wedding reception
Bowcliff Hall West Yorkshire wedding venue with the two brides walking around the venue at their LGBTQIA+ wedding
Stunning autumnal bouquet for October wedding held by bride in couple portrait
Overhead shot of the two brides walk up the stairs together
Two brides at Bowcliffe Hall wedding venue walking hand in hand
Tall candelabra wedding table centrepiece with minimalist wedding place settings and decor
Bride in high neck sleeveless wedding dress holding on directional signage with bride in black suit jacket and Ghanian waistcoat
The two brides have their first dance together at wedding reception
Traditional and elegant wedding tablescape at Bowcliffe Hall with autumnal flowers decorating the chairs
Three tier white iced wedding cake decorated with flowers made from Ghanian Kente cloth
Bride in Ghanian patterned waistcoat with the bride in sleeveless wedding dress playing with pastel confetti
Live wedding band performs at wedding reception at country house wedding
Bride holding colourful autumnal wedding bouquet with the bride in wedding suit at LGBTQI+ wedding
Bride in Ghanian waistcoat standing up at wedding breakfast to read out wedding speech

As we always say, there aren’t any rules when it comes to planning your wedding day, it’s your day, your way

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Stick with your gut feeling on how you want the day to be. Decide whether you want suppliers to be hands-on or off (we wanted suppliers to be more hands-on as they are the experts). Our budget spreadsheet helped to keep us on track with suppliers. Don't feel pressured to do everything trending on social media!

Marilyn & Jenni


Including aspects of their culture and heritage as well as DIY projects were just some of the ways Marilyn & Jenni made their wedding feel personal and unique to them. Another way you can do this is with wedding readings and music throughout the day. Music was such an important thing for the brides and they had their first dance to For My Hand by Burna Boy ft. Ed Sheeran. For the reading at their ceremony, the couple had The Art of Marriage by Wilfred A Peterson.


DJ/Band: Warning Tones |
Stationery: With Love from X |
Makeup & Hair: CMLH |
Wedding Dress: Angel Brides |
Wedding Favours: Where The Ribbon Ends
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