The Venue
Katie the Bride: I’d visited
Walcot Hall as a teenager and the venue had always stuck in my mind due to its rambling countryside and quirky accommodation. As soon as we visited the venue and met with Caitlin (the general manager at Walcot Hall), we knew it would be for us. All of our family and friends could stay within the grounds so there was no need for taxis, and you’re allowed to choose your own suppliers - and the sky’s the limit when it comes to decorations.
The Bride
I found my dress by combining the elements I’d liked from different dresses I’d tried. A fishtail shape, a low back and a v-neck in front. By focussing on this when I tried on my wedding dress I found the ‘Elia’
Atelier Pronovias dress I wanted to wear on the day, which flattered my body shape and was simple with a lovely beaded detail on the capped sleeves.
I bought my dress from
Leonie Claire in Hove. They have a great variety of brands so you can try on different ‘genres’ of dress. They were also so friendly and flexible when I needed to make appointments.
I wanted to keep my accessories simple, I wore vintage sapphire and diamond earrings which were a gift from Mike for the day. My shoes were round toed heels from
LK Bennett – I chose these as I wanted shoes to match Mike’s suit and as my ‘something blue’. My veil was borrowed from my beautiful and most stylish bridesmaid Clare - it’s very simple and easy to wear. I then had freesias tucked into my hair for when the veil came off for party time!
My hair was done by the lovely Tabby (
Hair by Tabitha) – she’s talented, friendly and thorough!
The Groom
Mike’s suit was from
Paul Smith it was tailored to fit him, nipping it in at the waist and lifting the arms slightly so the edges of his shirt cuffs could be seen. As Mike wears a suit and tie every day for work, we jazzed the suit up with a soft pink tie from
Reiss and a lightly checked grey waistcoat and brogues from
Ted Baker. This was topped off with a sapphire and pearl tiepin which belonged to my great-grandfather which was worn by my dad on his wedding day too.
The Decor
As Walcot Hall is so beautiful – especially in summer with its gardens in bloom, I didn’t go overboard with the decorations. I sourced my flowers from a local florist who grows her own flowers. Kath also created the bouquets for myself and my bridesmaids. I originally wanted all white flowers but quickly realised that this probably wasn’t going to be possible with local seasonal flowers, so we went for white and different shades of pink.
My very talented friend Victoria was our florist - I chose hurricane lanterns with a white candle in and with a wreath of flowers surrounding it (we got these from Ikea). For the main decorations we had big vases of flowers around the venue.
For the ceremony I had some David Austin rose trees topping and tailing the aisle. They smell delicious and are grown in Shropshire where our wedding took place.
The Wedding Party
Our groomsmen wore soft grey suits from River Island – we bought these from
ASOS, and thin blush ties from
Ties Planet (these were so hard to find!).
I had 7 bridesmaids and I knew I wanted them to wear white dresses, and we found some really simple good quality ones from Thread at
John Lewis which suited everyone. As a gift I bought all of the girls a pair of pearl earring which were handmade by a lady on Etsy (link below), all of my ladies wore these on the day.
The Ceremony
It was important to us to get married at the venue; Walcot had the option to get married outside in their garden next to a beautiful fountain (we got so lucky with the weather). Finding readings was one of the things we deliberated over the most. Mike’s dad read ‘If’ by Rudyard Kipling at our ceremony which is one of our favourite poems, he introduced it so well by saying that it was good advice to a new couple starting marriage as well as from a father to a son. One of my best friends Mainga also read Blessing for a Marriage by James Dillet Freeman, which echoed what we wanted to say about our relationship and marriage. At one point the registrar said “Take your wife” when she meant to say “take your husband” that really made us giggle helped us let go of some of our nerves.