Our Wedding
Alice the Bride: When it came to planning our day we had a very relaxed approach, I’m sure my mum felt it was too relaxed. We wanted to really enjoy the whole process and not have too much pressure on us to create anything too big. Neither of us had a set idea of what we wanted but knew we wanted a relaxed day with a pub reception, tasty food and beautiful flowers (I love flowers)!! After booking the key elements we slowly pulled it together and focused on the details in the month before the wedding...I even did
our seating plan the night before the wedding (after a few drinks). Be prepared for things to go wrong I think its inevitable but remember no one else knows and ultimately the day is about you and your husband having the best time and we really did. I smiled so hard all day my jaw ached for days after; I couldn’t have dreamt we
would have had such an amazing day.
The Bride
I had no idea of a dress style but wanted something I would feel myself in and be comfortable all day. The ladies at
Luella’s Bridal Boutique in Wimbledon village were brilliant. They have a lovely relaxed approach and a gorgeous selection, but as soon as I tried on my
Limor Rosen dress I knew it was the one.
Sewnright did all my alterations and made my veil (at the last minute). They also made my mum’s stunning coat and Charlotte was awesome and made us feel so at ease. I was surprised in the morning with two gold bangles from Jon engraved with ‘I do’ and our wedding date on the other I wore these along with my
Anna Sheffield engagement ring from Liberty’s London.
Having a great day also meant having the right people around us and I was so lucky to have so many amazing people on hand to help. My hair and make up was all down to
Jo Irving who is such a dream to work with and has such a great energy. She specializes in easy undone wedding hair and mine was just what I wanted and lasted all night.
The Groom
Jon headed straight to
Ted Baker for his suit having worked for them when he was younger and knowing they fit him well. He chose a lovely blue light woollen suit. He wanted to give it a slightly relaxed wintery feel and so went for a contrasting waistcoat from
Hackett. I treated him to his shoes and matching belt from
Russell and Bromley as his wedding gift. All the groomsmen wore blue suits and matching pink ties from
Charles Tyrwhitt.
The Flowers & Details
Flowers were the only part that I had an idea of what I wanted and luckily our amazing family friend Claire and her daughter Connie offered their help as soon as we got engaged. We went for loads of foliage and some even came from my parents garden, highlighted with a few of my favourites, amaranths’, protea and hydrangeas. Having my bouquet bought to me by Connie as I was getting ready made me feel quite emosh, they had captured everything I wanted. Inside
The White Horse Claire covered everything in foliage and the chandeliers had amaranths highlighting them perfectly. The tables were kept simple with homemade candleholders. Made from glass bottles with eucalyptus suspended in water and tapered candles, they complimented the venue perfectly and a few of them now sit on my mantelpiece and act as a lovely reminder of the day. For wedding favours we opted for mini jam jars filled with tequila to get everyone going!
The Wedding Party
I left my bridesmaids dresses down to my maid of honour Helen who I have know my whole life and has awesome style. She went for a cute tasseled dress from
Zara and for Lauren an embellished
ASOS number, all in similar tones to my dress. I remembered being a flower girl when I was younger and didn’t enjoy it, partly due to an uncomfortable dress. So we went for tutus from
Bob and Blossom and the Jumpers and trainers were from Zara for our flower girls, they loved them. I also made them little goodie bags to keep them entertained during the meal.
The Ceremony
Having booked our reception venue we were struggling to find a good ceremony option. Knowing one of Jon’s school friends had her reception in the same place we hit her up for tips and she sold us on the Guildhall in Priory Park. We ended up booking it without even seeing it and could not have been happier we did. It is such a beautiful location in the centre of Chichester and Laura and Charlotte were amazing from beginning to end. Getting ready at the venue the day before Jon heard a guy playing the Trumpet in the park. After a quick chat he was booked to play as our guests arrived and after the ceremony and he was amazing. It is such a beautiful
building so we decided to keep decoration to a minimum, lots and lots of foliage and big balloons. We were so lucky with perfect blue skies, getting out of the car at Priory Park and walking down with my dad and the trumpet playing us in was an amazing moment. I struggled not to sob the whole way down the aisle, its so overwhelming having all your favourite people in one place and the energy they give off, I did ok until
I saw Jon. We went for traditional vows and also had readings from Jon’s sister ‘Love is like owning a dog’ Taylor Mali and my maid of honour ‘You deserve a lover’ by Frida Cahlo had us all in tears, it was one of the highlights of the day for me.