Venue
Irene The Bride: Knowing that I was a massive Jane Austen fan, Tom took me to Bath for my birthday during my first trip to the UK. The city's gorgeous Georgian architecture and rolling English hills were exactly like Austen had described in her novels. I was so struck by the beauty of the city and especially the
Assembly Rooms, where I remember twirling and dancing to an imaginary ball, utterly content. When we got engaged, it was the only venue I called.
Stationery
As a designer and artist at
Irene Suh Art, it was really important to me that I plan the wedding myself and design all its elements, right down to the smallest detail. From ‘save the dates’ to invitations to all the little pieces that needed calligraphy, it was all DIY. I spent countless hours sourcing the perfect cotton cold press paper on which to print each menu, program, and table name from my home professional printer. I illustrated a map of Bath and added little personal touches such as our cat accompanying us to the venue and my favorite landmarks.
Wedding
With my father by my side, I arrived at the Assembly Rooms in a horse and carriage, taking me back to Austen’s time. As the
string trio filled the air with splendid music for my entrance, I was struck by the crisp smell of fresh flowers in the ceremony room. Our florist Kirstie, from
Ruby and the Wolf, had produced the most stunning, exquisite arrangements. Our wedding was also a blend of cultures: Tom and many guests wore their Scottish kilts and later both Tom and I slipped into Korean hanboks (all the better for ceilidh dancing!). And my mom wore her own beautiful hanbok all day. Words can't describe the cascade of joyful emotions as I married Tom. I cried during the entire ceremony and Tom had to repeatedly reach into his sporran to pull out a handkerchief to wipe his own tears. (Knowing he’d need it, I’d given him a personalised one that morning at our first look.)
Decor
In the adjacent tearoom, the elegance of the eighteenth-century chandeliers and timeless Roman columns made for a captivating setting for our reception. For the décor, we chose a classic look to match our surroundings. Candlesticks and candelabras made the room glow with warm, natural light. To add a bit more colour to the room, we used all rose pink
Ester and Erik tapered candles and matching colored napkins with sprigs of waxflower tucked in. For each table’s centerpiece, the flowers were arranged so they would look natural, elegant, and effortless. Full of vibrant pinks, corals, and peaches, the blooms perfectly complemented the stationery I had designed.
Entertainment
After dinner and speeches, the
ceilidh kicked off, drawing everyone—young or old, Scottish or not, expert or beginner—together on the dance floor, unable to resist its famous charms.
Every bride dreams of having her perfect wedding. It was such a joy and a privilege to be able to be so hands-on with the design process to ensure my special day realised my dreams so perfectly. I’d like to think if Jane Austen were plucked out of her time and into ours, she’d have been angling for an invitation.